Marriage Advice

Marriage is a Human Nature

Islam is a religion of nature are, and God Almighty created human nature fits with this, because it is Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala tells man exposes himself to a religious nature are to prevent fraud and irregularities. So the man walking on fithrahnya.

Marriage is the nature of humanity, and therefore Islam advocates for marriage, because marriage is a gharizah insaniyah. When gharizah is not filled with a legitimate way of marriage, then he will find the streets of satan that many plunges into the black valley.
Word of Allah Ta'ala.

Meaning: The hadapkanlah with a straight face to the religion; nature God has created man's nature. There was no change in the nature of God. the right religion, but most people do not know. .

A. Encourage Islamic Marriage

Islam has made marriage valid according to the Qur'an and Sunnah as the only means to meet the demands of a very basic human instinct, and the means to build an Islamic family. Appreciation of Islam against the bond of marriage was very great, to the extent that the bond is set equal to half of religion. Anas bin Malik radliyallahu 'anhu said: It is said the Prophet sallallaahu' alaihi wa sallam:

Meaning: Whoever got married, then he has completed half of his religion. And let him devoted to God in maintaining the other half. .

B. Muslims Do not Like celibacy

Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam commanded to marry and prohibits harsh to people who do not want to get married. Anas bin Malik radliyallahu 'anhu said: Messenger of Allah sallallaahu' alaihi wa sallam commanded us to marry and forbade us to celibacy with harsh restrictions. And he said:

Meaning: Marry women who are many children and caring. Because I will take pride in the number of my people in front of the Prophet later in the day. .

Once upon a time three companions came to ask the wives of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam about worship him, then once explained, each wanting to enhance their worship. One said: As for me, will be fasting all time without a break. And another said: As I would stay away from women, I will not marry forever .... When it was heard by the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam, he came out as he said:

That is: Is it true you guys have said so and so, really for the sake of Allah, verily I am the most scared and pious among you. However, I fasted and I break the fast, I pray and I sleep well and I also marry women. Whoever does not like sunnahku, it does not include golonganku. .

People who have a reasonable and bashirah will not want to plunge himself into the street with a single life astray. Shaykh Yusuf Muhammad Hussain said: Living a life of celibacy is a dry and arid, life has no meaning and purpose. A life devoid of human virtue which is generally established on the basis of selfishness and self-serving and would like apart from all liability.

People who are single are generally only live for himself. They are single with an always raging lust, passion and spiritual purity to become turbid. They are always there in the struggle against nature, in spite of their faith to be reliable, but the upheaval that occurs continuously over time will weaken the faith and endurance as well as the health and life will take him to the valley of disgrace.

So people who are reluctant to marry either male or female, they were actually classified as one of the most miserable in this life. They are people who at least enjoy the happiness of life, both sensual and spiritual pleasures are. Maybe they are rich, but they are poorer than the gift of God.


Islam rejects the monk's because the system is contrary to human nature, and even the attitude that means against the sunnah and the nature of God Almighty which has been set for the creatures. Foster reluctance for fear of poor households is the attitude of ignorant people, because all the food has been arranged by God since humans are in nature's womb, and man can not theorized sustenance which God, for example, he said: When I lived alone my salary is enough, but if a wife is not enough?! .

These words are words of falsehood, as opposed to the verses of Allah and the hadiths of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam. God commanded to marry, and if they are needy, Allah will help to give sustenance to him. God promises a relief to those who married, in his words:

Meaning: And kawinkanlah the people who alone among you and those worthy of your right hands possess slaves, male and female. If they are poor, Allah will enrich them of His bounty. And Allah is Knower area ..

Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam reinforce the promise of God was with his saying:

Meaning: There are three classes of human beings who are entitled God help them, that is a mujahid fi sabilillah, a servant who redeemed himself to be independent, and the one who got married because he wanted to preserve his honor. .

The salafus-Salih strongly advocated for their anti-marriage and celibacy, and do not like to linger on my own.

Ibn Mas'ud radliyallahu 'anhu once said: If I was ten days away, really I would rather get married than I have to see God as a bachelor. .